The first step to manage or cope with anxiety is to understand it! Anxiety is very different to just feeling anxious, for example. Click here to read our blog on ‘What is anxiety’.
Much of the difficulty around acknowledging a mental health challenge is the stigma. An important first (but often difficult) step is to accept that we do have anxiety and that it’s okay to feel this way. By acknowledging how we feel, we can move forward towards addressing the problem by managing those feelings. Try writing down how you feel, speaking it out loud, or telling someone close to you how you’re feeling.
Strategies to manage our anxiety can be broken into two groups—firstly immediate relief strategies, and secondly cognitive behaviour therapy strategies.
Immediate strategies
Short-term relief strategies help to reduce some of our anxiety, particularly providing temporary relief from physiological physical symptoms of anxiety, such as sweating, breathlessness, muscle tension and an increased heartrate.
- Mindfulness meditation – engage in the present moment by simply noticing your thoughts and feelings, recognising and releasing any tension in your body and softening your extremities (feet and hands)
- Sensory engagement – engage in your surroundings by noticing and naming 5 things you can touch, 4 things you can see, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell and 1 thing you can taste
- Deep breathing – slow your heart rate down by breathing in for 5 seconds, holding for 2 seconds and breathing out slowly for 3 seconds (and repeating)
Cognitive behaviour therapy strategies
Cognitive behaviour therapy strategies aim to unpack more of the underlying reasons for our anxiety, and work to improve our ability to think more clearly. They help to promote more rational thoughts and feelings which enable us to feel more in control, in the present moment and in touch with reality.
- Control circle – draw a circle on the page and inside the circle, write down what is inside your control (e.g. your actions, what you eat, who you spend time with), and outside the circle, write down what is outside your control (e.g. other people’s actions, the weather, what school or uni work you are assigned)
- Journalling – in a new notebook, write down whatever thoughts and feelings come to your mind to take them out of your mind and onto paper to make them more objective and rational
- Realistic scenarios – draw a table with three columns and in the first row cells, write down “Worst case”, “Best case” and “Most likely case” respectively, then for each row write down scenarios that are causing you anxiety (e.g. “Worst case” = “I am going to fail the maths test”, “Best case” = “I get 100% on the maths test” and “Most likely case” = “I will try my best to study for the maths test and most likely pass it as I have done for all previous tests”)
References
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