Stress management strategies can often seem like common sense or too basic to make a meaningful impact. But it is actually about doing small things, in a consistent and continuous way, to help bring structure, routine and stability to our lives.
1. Actively manage your physical and mental wellbeing
Exercise regularly
It is important we take care of our physical health by exercising regularly. Physical activity releases dopamine (the hormone which makes us feel pleasure) and serotonin (helps us regulate our mood). It also reduces cortisol levels in the short-term, and lowers psychosocial stress levels in the long-term (Klaperski et al., 2014). Moreover, exercising also gives us a healthy escape from the things that stress us out.
Eat well
Taking care about what we eat and drink is very important to managing our gut health, and how our body can regulate our mood. Eat foods that are high in vitamin-D to increase serotonin levels like eggs, and omega-3-richfoods such as fatty fish to regulate mood.
Improve sleep habits
Although stress can negatively impact our sleep cycles by keeping us awake, we can manage our night-time routines to fall asleep more easily and sleep better. Avoid screens at least an hour before bed and switch to a book instead. Take a warm bath or drink a cup of warm milk. Make sure you sleep and wake up at similar times everyday (even on weekends and your day off!) . Get your body into a habit so it’s easier for you and your body.
2. Practice mindfulness
A meta-analysis of 49 studies Querstret and colleagues (2020) found that mindfulness activities and programs have the power to reduce measured stress twice as much than people without mindfulness training. Mindfulness is a type of meditation where you focus on being intensely aware of what you're sensing and feeling in the moment, without interpretation or judgment. Practicing mindfulness involves breathing methods, guided imagery, and other practices to relax the body and mind and help reduce stress.
3. Connect with others
The overwhelming outcome of stress is that it makes us feel defenceless. We narrow our perspective and ignore the bigger picture. But speaking to someone you trust can bring in a fresh perspective to help soothe the stress you’re feeling. It also feels good to connect with someone to help share your burdens, making us feel less alone. Too much stress is also a sign that seeking professional help is needed. There is no shame in speaking to a counsellor, coach, or therapist. They are trained to address your specific problems and help you manage your stress and emotions better to regain the wellbeing you deserve.
4. Assess your stress
On a piece of paper, write down what is bothering you. Then identify what is the best and worst possible scenario for you and what is most likely to happen. Be objective rather than emotional in this exercise as it will provide a more realistic assessment of the challenge you’re facing. It also makes you recognise that not everything is as bad as it seems, and sometimes we’re stressing too much for no good reason.
5. Carve out time for your hobbies.
Regardless of how busy we are, every day we should put aside time to do something we love. Engage in activities that give you pleasure and joy. Research shows this reduces stress by almost half and lowers your heart rate, too (Saihara et al., 2010).
In conclusion
While stress is necessary for normal functioning and keeping us alert to threats, too much can impede our health and wellbeing. Learning to cope with stress is a useful skill. It teaches us to navigate our own emotions and empowers us to build resilience to overcome barriers.
References
Klaperski, S., Dawans, B., Heinrichs, M., & Fuchs, R. (2014). Effects of a 12-week endurance training program on the physiological response to psychosocial stress in men: A randomized controlled trial. Journal of Behavioral Medicine, 37(6), 1118-1133.
Querstret, D., Morison, L., Dickinson, S., Cropley, M., & John, M. (2020). Mindfulness-based stress reduction and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy for psychological health and well-being in nonclinical samples: A systematic review and meta-analysis. International Journal of Stress Management, 27(4), 394-411.
Saihara, K., Hamasaki, S., Ishida, S., Kataoka, T., Yoshikawa, A., Orihara, K., Ogawa, M., Oketani, N., Fukudome, T., Atsuchi, N., Shinsato, T., Okui, H., Kubozono, T., Ichiki, H., Kuwahata, S., Mizoguchi, E., Fujita, S., Takumi, T., Ninomiya, Y., . . . Tei, C. (2010). Enjoying hobbies is related to desirable cardiovascular effects. Heart and Vessels, 25(2), 113-20.